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Patrick and I have been talking a lot since Sunday, along with thinking a lot about our circumstances and relationship. He was going to come down on Tuesday night, but given that I had both Jon & Dave here, it probably wouldn’t have been the best idea, since we really needed to talk before doing silly things like that together.

He did come down Wednesday night though, we again spent a good bit of time talking, this time in person… which is something we definitely needed.

I don’t think I can say that we have everything worked out, but then there are also things that really don’t need worked out… because they’re not even on the horizon for quite a while. It certainly feels like we’ve been able to address everything though, and I can say that I know that I’m going to be making the compromises and putting in the effort that I should be, and feel that I can say the same for him. I also feel that we understand where each other is coming from quite a bit better now than we ever have before. It was a very good evening… even if we were up until seven in the morning. I’m very happy with the result too, and I can now call him my boyfriend again.